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Posted on 11.23.09 by K. Daniel Glover @ 11:22 pm
Roberts’ story won’t, and shouldn’t, deter adopted children from being curious about their pasts. But it is indeed a cautionary note. While the odds of being Charles Manson’s son are slim, the odds of finding a parent with a colorful history are much greater. Many children are put up for adoption because they are born into the world in circumstances that are not the best. Filed under: Adoption and Human Interest and People Comments: None |
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Posted on 11.18.09 by K. Daniel Glover @ 7:40 pm
For 10 years, my wife and I have been living the adoption dream. After we had endured the anguish of infertility for years, God blessed us with three angels from Guatemala — Anthony (10), Eliana (almost 8) and Catherine (5 as of a week ago).
But the rest of that story, the part involving the emptiness of children who do not know their birth parents, has not been lived. I was reminded of that unwritten chapter today when reading about our friends, Rick, Pam and Scottie Reynolds. I’ve blogged about Scottie before. He is the star of Villanova’s basketball team. But more relevant to our family, he is adopted — and he has struggled with the emotions of loving his parents yet wanting to know his birth mother. That’s the story USA Today told. Filed under: Adoption and Family and Friends and Human Interest and People and Sports Comments: 1 Comment |
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Posted on 06.30.09 by K. Daniel Glover @ 11:26 pm
England was paroled in March 2007 after serving half of a three-year sentence for her part in the scandal and now lives in her hometown, Fort Ashby, W.Va. She is the single mother of a 4-year-old son and can’t find a job because, she says, no one wants to hire the woman who became the face of Abu Ghraib. That brings us to this quote: “Normal moms have jobs. They get up, they take their kids to school, they go to work, they come home, they cook, they clean, they do all that. I’m home all day.” Say what?! I realize I’m almost three decades removed from childhood, but Lynndie England’s twisted perception of a “normal mom” doesn’t describe the woman who raised me in West Virginia. It doesn’t describe my wife, either, or most of our friends — or even women I’ve known in the workforce. Filed under: Adoption and Culture and Family and Home Schooling and Parenting and People Comments: None |
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Posted on 05.22.09 by K. Daniel Glover @ 6:17 pm
If he does, I’ll be able to say, “I knew him when.” Even better, I’ll be able to say I still know him now. We were part of the same congregations as Scottie and his family for several years. I taught Bible class to one of his older sisters. This Sunday, I’ll be preaching at the congregation where they worship. We share not only our faith with the Reynoldses but also a love of adoption. Scottie is adopted, as are two of his siblings, and we adopted our three children from Guatemala. It just blows my mind when I watch Scottie play basketball on national television or see stories about him — especially stories about NBA tryouts. Like this one in The Washington Times:
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Posted on 03.27.09 by K. Daniel Glover @ 6:01 pm
As my wife and I considered the blessed parenthood option of adoption years ago, we investigated the possibility of foster care. We quickly abandoned that idea after being exposed to the bureaucratic idiocy of it all. Social services agencies seem intent to mess up anything worthwhile. I was reminded of the nightmare foster-care system our governments have created when I read this note from friends who want to be foster parents:
No, it doesn’t make any sense at all. That’s precisely why social services “experts” these things. I’m beginning to think they are required to take a course called “How To Write Stupid Rules.” Filed under: Adoption and Friends and Government Comments: 1 Comment |
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Posted on 01.29.09 by K. Daniel Glover @ 11:11 pm
In Great Britain, you can be too old to raise your grandchildren by the time you hit age 46. But if you’re gay, you’re the perfect couple to raise the flesh and blood of those one-foot-in-the-grave grandparents.
The “mum” isn’t happy with the decision, either. “I did not under any circumstances want my children to be placed with gay men. I wanted them to have a mum and a dad.” I have a renewed appreciation for the American Revolution that separated us from the British — but sadly, America is headed in the same perverted direction on adoption. Filed under: Adoption and News & Politics Comments: None |







